About 3Strands

At 3Strands, we believe marriage was never meant to be done alone. A healthy, Christ-centered marriage doesn’t just happen—it’s built intentionally, with wisdom, community, and God at the center.

Our mission is simple: to help engaged and newlywed couples lay a strong foundation for a marriage that lasts a lifetime and impacts generations.

Why We Exist?

Many couples enter marriage with love but little preparation. The truth is, feelings of love are not enough to carry a marriage through the challenges of life. Without the right tools, guidance, and community, couples often find themselves struggling unnecessarily.

That’s where 3Strands comes in. We walk with couples during their most formative years—from engagement through the first five years of marriage—to provide them with biblical wisdom, practical tools, and a supportive community.

Our Approach

We focus on three core strands that make marriage unbreakable:

Christ at the Center – A marriage rooted in faith creates purpose, unity, and resilience.
Intentional Education – Learning how to communicate, resolve conflict, and build trust sets the stage for lasting love.
Thriving Community – Couples grow stronger when they walk with others on the same journey.

Through educational curriculum, interactive seminars, quarterly gatherings, and annual conferences, we equip couples to not only survive marriage but to thrive in it.

Our Vision

We dream of marriages that not only endure but flourish—homes where love, faith, and unity overflow into future generations. By strengthening marriages early, we believe we can strengthen families, communities, and ultimately the Kingdom of God.

Meet the Founder

I’m Charmecia Okpara, the founder and lead educator at 3Strands. I wear many hats: wife, mother, mentor, entrepreneur, upcoming author, and Executive Pastor. I am obtaining Master’s Degree in Family Studies with a specialization in Christian Counseling from Amberton University, which has equipped me to guide couples with both biblical wisdom and practical, research-based tools. At the heart of it all, I am deeply passionate about helping couples build Christ-centered marriages that impact generations.

Over eight years ago, I met my college sweetheart, Joshua Okpara. Since then, we’ve gotten married, welcomed our amazing son Josiah, and embarked on a beautiful journey that has revealed to me the true power of Kingdom marriage. Together, Joshua and I launched a ministry that has allowed us to mentor, coach, and even officiate weddings for numerous couples. Those experiences opened my eyes to the great need for intentional marriage education, leading me to establish 3Strands.

My heart for 3Strands is simple but urgent: to build a community of couples who are inspired to do marriage God’s way. Too many step into marriage because it feels like the right next step or a box to check off before a certain age. But I believe marriage is so much more—it carries a divine purpose that can transform families and leave a legacy for generations.

I’m passionate about equipping couples with tools that prevent struggles before they begin. I often say, “prevention is better than cure.” Once the knot is tied, it’s much harder, and sometimes even devastating, to untie. That’s why I love teaching on courtship, marriage preparation, and early marriage, so couples can start strong and stay strong.

And because I’m human too, when I’m not speaking, coaching, or leading, you’ll probably find me Googling random things (Dr. Google is my best friend 😂), shopping for earrings or lip gloss, or watching a funny video that makes me laugh until I cry.

At the end of the day, my greatest joy is seeing couples not just survive marriage, but thrive in it—leaving behind a legacy of love, faith, and strength.

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